>>Okay, those are common feelings on the acespec. Demisexual and gray-asexual people in particular may have erotic feelings, but without the driving compulsion to act on them that allosexual people typically feel.<<

This. I seem to still have erotic feelings from time to time, but I rarely feel the *need* to do anything about them. Or my body is driving the need, but my brain is still kind of "meh" about it.