Had connection with same friend as technoshaman, and was at same Zoom memorial. One way I understand someone's worth is by looking at the people who knew them, and understanding what difference the person made in those people's lives. The subject of the memorial scored very high in both the quantity and quality of those interactions, which is why they were so well known in the circles we share.

I've also got a big load of extra cope and love from all who shared it at the memorial. Please let me know if some of it would do you good. I hope that your friend was as valued in their circles as my friend was.