The real trick to carbonara is to let the pasta cook the eggs. Here, Babish'll show you how. (Skip the first half of the vid unless you can get at least pancetta at your market; the second version is 'Murkin style.. ) https://basicswithbabish.co/basicsepisodes/carbonara (this link has the vid embedded and the text below it for easy copy-.... wait for it... pasta... )

I'm gonna have to make that when N is away and me and mdlbear can cook all the treif we want... :)