Totally understandable; I don't manage to read all the posts from everyone either. I still have a very low sex drive, and it is of less importance for me than most other relationship things, but we are making it work for us. The associable bit was more a matter of circumstance I think. I had so much I wanted to work on in myself, I didn't have enough time or energy left to devote to another person, nor did I really want to look for one.

I feel like I'm in a better place personally now, and a little better at balancing things, so a relationship didn't feel so scary or terrible. I did kind of fall into it sideways, but I'm very happy with how things are going so far. :) :) :)