*laughs* I'm not sure I could pull that off, not really my style, though I do see your point. I may also have misinterpreted how he meant his statement, I'm not so good at reading people. And I usually tend to assume the least positive of possible intents, because I might maybe have a tiny problem with self confidence.
I am feeling better now and I am going to trying to keep of suggestion in mind, even if only internally, then maybe I can handle it better next time :)
Thank you for leaving me a bit of cheer :D <3