I have no idea which word better describes you, but when it's all said and done, when it comes to sex, there's way more said than done. More seriously, all human interests and everything is on a continuum, and sexuality is no different. There's so much noise about it today, that people feel that if they're not having sex 7 times/wk with 10 different partners (or vice versa), they're lagging behind. In fact, the feelings you express are probably more common than this mythic hyper-sexualized experience.