I actually only just discovered the words aegosexual/autochorisexual a few months ago and it hit me like a ton of bricks, like "Oh, you mean I'm not the only person on planet Earth who's like this???!!!" I also identify as pan, in the sense that I don't really want to get it on with a bio-partner, but in terms of thinking so-and-so is attractive, I've had the "hot" reaction with varying genders and non-genders. "Grey-ace" *is* a convenient shorthand, so I list "grey-ace" on my big-ass wall-of-text sticky post, but yeah. XD