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fuzzyred ([personal profile] fuzzyred) wrote2022-03-04 09:24 pm
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Bingo Fill: Set Boundaries

This poem fills the "Set Boundaries square on the 3x3 Solo Public Card for the Valentines Bingo Fest.

Drawing Lines

Boundaries can be tricky, ephemeral things.
Everyone's will look different but all are valid.
For some the line might be here, for others, there.
For one this topic is off limits, for another, that one instead.

Finding that line between "enough" and "too much" can be hard,
but the soul searching is worth it, to be able to say,
"This is okay, but this isn't," and to have enough conviction
in your needs and desires to defend your lines.

So go ahead, set those boundaries,
draw the lines that will keep you, and others, safe,
and never feel bad if yours come out different than anybody else's.
technoshaman: (pooh)

[personal profile] technoshaman 2022-03-05 10:39 pm (UTC)(link)
.... that's a trauma response. *hugs*

I mean if they get called and go "oh, I'm sorry" and actually try to get better about it, that's one thing. If they blow you off? Blow them off. Completely. Tell'em Mama Bear said so.