I can see how a mismatch in mental a appearance and physical appearance would cause some issues., especially if it's a big part of you in-system. I hope it doesn't cause you too much discomfort when you are at the front. Sadly, you probably would, although I don't agree with it one bit. It's your body, and you should be able to wear it however makes you mostly happy, as long as you aren't harming anyone in the process. (Offending their delicate sensibilities does not count as harm.)