I find it's less confusing if people just straight tell me what they want or ask for something (of course sometimes I have a hard time saying no), but I tend to default to throwing out hints myself, because that is less scary that asking, and a missed hint is easier to handle than a straight no.
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Date: 2021-06-20 03:32 pm (UTC)I find it's less confusing if people just straight tell me what they want or ask for something (of course sometimes I have a hard time saying no), but I tend to default to throwing out hints myself, because that is less scary that asking, and a missed hint is easier to handle than a straight no.