>> Mehsexual! I love it! This is the way I feel sooo much of the time. <<
Yay! :D
>>Sexy things are okay, and can be enjoyable *if* my buttons are pressed in the right way, but I have atypical buttons and an atypical sequence, so most often sexytimes are just meh,<<
Frustrating.
>> and I'd rather make cookies or go rock climbing. <<
These are things that acespec folks say very often, and allosexual folks almost never say.
>> I shall do this. You have a lot of awesome fans, and a lot of awesome works, and I've learned a lot since finding your journal. :D <<
I am delighted to hear that.
If you want do spark conversations with other acefolk, consider prompting or sponsoring material about ace characters. I have a bunch of them, and I'm always up for adding characters from orientations I haven't featured yet.
>> an accurate one can be rather handy for determining where I stand, and helping other people understand what I'm looking for and what I like.<<
Agreed. Me, I like naming things, but I don't feel constrained by labels. It took years of trying on different things to find some that fit, and eventually, come up with some of my own. But some of my orientations just plain irritate people. On a good day I may point out the problems with their whining. On a bad day it's just, "Well, I'm not going to fuck you, so I don't care what you think."
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Re: Yes ...
Date: 2021-02-24 05:38 am (UTC)Yay! :D
>>Sexy things are okay, and can be enjoyable *if* my buttons are pressed in the right way, but I have atypical buttons and an atypical sequence, so most often sexytimes are just meh,<<
Frustrating.
>> and I'd rather make cookies or go rock climbing. <<
These are things that acespec folks say very often, and allosexual folks almost never say.
>> I shall do this. You have a lot of awesome fans, and a lot of awesome works, and I've learned a lot since finding your journal. :D <<
I am delighted to hear that.
If you want do spark conversations with other acefolk, consider prompting or sponsoring material about ace characters. I have a bunch of them, and I'm always up for adding characters from orientations I haven't featured yet.
>> an accurate one can be rather handy for determining where I stand, and helping other people understand what I'm looking for and what I like.<<
Agreed. Me, I like naming things, but I don't feel constrained by labels. It took years of trying on different things to find some that fit, and eventually, come up with some of my own. But some of my orientations just plain irritate people. On a good day I may point out the problems with their whining. On a bad day it's just, "Well, I'm not going to fuck you, so I don't care what you think."