Sudden movement puts me in alert mode, and I usually want to find out if that's normal from the person who did it. I calm down a lot when I can associate things like mood to behavior. I do see the self-wrestling in anxious children, so I can associate that with an adult behavior. Thanks to Ysabet, I too understand that some flapping is happy, but I don't see a lot in my area.
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Date: 2019-09-13 03:13 am (UTC)