I am terrible with follow up myself, especially if it involves making plans, especially if those plans are with an acquaintance that may not be high on my priority list. Them: "Let me know when you have time to get together." Me: "Sure, will do." 2 weeks to 6 months later: *crickets* Plans work much better if the other person gives a time frame. It's not that I don't want to hang out, just that I will usually find higher priority things I want to do, whether that is time with another person, working on a craft project, or just reading. Most people don't seem to like that kind of relationship, so I only have a few close friends in my sphere at any given time.
People are hard. I'm no good at programming, but I also steer clear of any job that needs heavy interaction with other people. (My current job involves working in a booze factory.)
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Date: 2020-08-16 04:08 pm (UTC)Them: "Let me know when you have time to get together." Me: "Sure, will do." 2 weeks to 6 months later: *crickets*
Plans work much better if the other person gives a time frame. It's not that I don't want to hang out, just that I will usually find higher priority things I want to do, whether that is time with another person, working on a craft project, or just reading. Most people don't seem to like that kind of relationship, so I only have a few close friends in my sphere at any given time.
People are hard. I'm no good at programming, but I also steer clear of any job that needs heavy interaction with other people. (My current job involves working in a booze factory.)