Late (or really late) Weekly Update
Dec. 2nd, 2022 04:59 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
fuzzyredOnce again it is Friday instead of Thursday, and I forgot to make a post at all last week. Ugh. I was doing really well at the start of the year, and then... it just kind of fell apart on me.
I am officially moved into my new house. I had some wonderful help to load up the Uhaul two Sundays ago, and some equally wonderful help to unload it last Saturday. We're not unpacked all the way yet, but I'd estimate between half and three quarters of the boxes have been dealt with. All of the required services have been transfered and set up as well, and what furniture was needed has been purchased, so I think I can finally relax now. Painting has been done and the main rooms are just about set up, so it's starting to look like a real house now. I suspect I won't be fully happy until all the boxes have been unpacked and everything put away, but there is time for that, as much as I just want it over and done with.
I'm also hoping that I can start getting back into a routine now, since I've let a lot of the every day stuff go. I have a feeling when I do my goal review at the end of the year I'll have more misses than I wanted, but I wasn't planning on selling my house when I wrote them, so I think I'll cut myself some slack there.
The other thing that's been on my mind lately is mt orientation. A few things have happened (nothing bad) that make me feel that "asexual" isn't really the right label, and I'm not sure grey-asexual works either. The thing is, I don't know what I *would* fit into instead. My attraction isn't limited to just a certain gender but I also *really* don't place a high priority on, or have a have desire for, sexual encounters. I think maybe "demisexual" fits, but I'm not sure. I know I don't need a label, but sometimes it's nice to have a place you fit. Three things I know for certain though: I'm kinky through and through; one-night stands or casual sex arrangements hold no appeal for me whatsoever; and, while I do lean heavily towards men for sexual and kinky encounters, that's not an absolute. I find many kinds of people beautiful and personality usual plays into my sexual desire for a person as much as, if not more than, physical appearance. So if anybody has a list of words, I shall look at them, because, Oooo words! but otherwise I'm just going to keep on being me, with a little extra confusion.
I hope all of you are doing well and that you have a splendid weekend coming up. Much love and comfort to all.
I am officially moved into my new house. I had some wonderful help to load up the Uhaul two Sundays ago, and some equally wonderful help to unload it last Saturday. We're not unpacked all the way yet, but I'd estimate between half and three quarters of the boxes have been dealt with. All of the required services have been transfered and set up as well, and what furniture was needed has been purchased, so I think I can finally relax now. Painting has been done and the main rooms are just about set up, so it's starting to look like a real house now. I suspect I won't be fully happy until all the boxes have been unpacked and everything put away, but there is time for that, as much as I just want it over and done with.
I'm also hoping that I can start getting back into a routine now, since I've let a lot of the every day stuff go. I have a feeling when I do my goal review at the end of the year I'll have more misses than I wanted, but I wasn't planning on selling my house when I wrote them, so I think I'll cut myself some slack there.
The other thing that's been on my mind lately is mt orientation. A few things have happened (nothing bad) that make me feel that "asexual" isn't really the right label, and I'm not sure grey-asexual works either. The thing is, I don't know what I *would* fit into instead. My attraction isn't limited to just a certain gender but I also *really* don't place a high priority on, or have a have desire for, sexual encounters. I think maybe "demisexual" fits, but I'm not sure. I know I don't need a label, but sometimes it's nice to have a place you fit. Three things I know for certain though: I'm kinky through and through; one-night stands or casual sex arrangements hold no appeal for me whatsoever; and, while I do lean heavily towards men for sexual and kinky encounters, that's not an absolute. I find many kinds of people beautiful and personality usual plays into my sexual desire for a person as much as, if not more than, physical appearance. So if anybody has a list of words, I shall look at them, because, Oooo words! but otherwise I'm just going to keep on being me, with a little extra confusion.
I hope all of you are doing well and that you have a splendid weekend coming up. Much love and comfort to all.
